Steward Your Life – Part 1: Relationships, Work, and Physical Well-Being
- Mary Hancock
- 3 days ago
- 3 min read
According to AI, stewardship is the responsible management, protection, and care of something entrusted to you—whether resources, property, or even your community—with the intent to use it wisely for both present and future benefit. In this first part of the series, we will explore what it means to steward your relationships, your work, and your physical life with intentionality and purpose.
Stewarding Family & Relationships
While we cannot choose the family we were born into, we can choose how we respond to life experiences. As children, we are shaped by what we observe and endure—often with little control. But as adults, we gain the power to make new choices that help us move forward.
This requires us to let go of old patterns so we can embrace new growth.
Every one of us carries “things”—the emotional weights, patterns, or past experiences that keep us from living fully. These “things” must be addressed so they do not block our progress or delay our destiny.
Many of us stay stuck because:
We are embarrassed or ashamed of what we’ve been through.
Pride keeps us from seeking help, often rooted in regret, self-pity, or negative thinking.
We’re so absorbed in our past pain that we don’t recognize the possibility of healing.
When we allow our past to hold us hostage, we spend our lives merely surviving, never stepping into what we were created and anointed to do.
Before you can thrive, you must heal. Healing helps you confront yourself, your circumstances, and the truth you’ve avoided. It clears the path so you can move forward with clarity.
Stop beating yourself up for where you are. Instead, take a compassionate inventory of your life. Seek out a mentor, counselor, or guide who can help you heal, forgive, and break free.
Grace is available—but once we know what to do and refuse to act, we hinder our own progress.
Stewardship starts with honesty. Growth starts with courage. And you are not alone.
Stewarding Your Work
Work looks different for each of us. For some, it feels enjoyable; for others, it feels heavy. Much of this comes down to perspective—how we see our assignments, our responsibilities, and our purpose.
Sometimes we think our calling lies in one single path. And for some, that’s true. But for many, purpose unfolds through multiple experiences, jobs, and seasons that prepare us for our bigger assignment.
The challenge is that we often repeat cycles because:
We’re not paying attention.
We’re avoiding the necessary work.
We resist the adjustments required for growth.
When we refuse to pivot, life remains the same—and we wonder why. Stewardship requires awareness, willingness, and the discipline to change our path when needed.
Stewarding Your Physical Body
We are responsible for the choices we make about our physical bodies. The way we care for our bodies affects how our bodies will care for us in return.
Ask yourself:
Are you mindful of what you eat?
Do you intentionally move your body?
Are you listening to your body’s signals?
As children, we eat and do what our caregivers provide—which is honorable. But adulthood brings the responsibility to make our own choices, especially those that shape our health and longevity. Stewardship of your physical life is not about perfection; it’s about awareness, responsibility, and consistent care.
Final Thoughts
Stewardship is not a one-time decision—it’s a lifelong practice. Whether it’s healing from past wounds, shifting your approach to work, or improving your physical habits, each area requires honesty, courage, and intentional action.
Your life is valuable. Your purpose matters. And you are capable of stewarding every part of it with wisdom and grace.
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